My Light
With a weighty, grounded presence, you have a deep consideration for others' feelings. Even when the mood turns tense, you take your time to soothe people's hearts first, gently settling the room. That peaceful manner brings a real sense of calm to everyone around you.
The Real Light
Soothing everyone else's feelings before your own is a self-inflicted you keep signing up for. That unhurried, patient energy also means you consistently miss the moment you should've jumped in — energy when the room needed you to react.
The real light is a little spicy. If you dare, knock three times.